Conner had told us that he would be traveling to Coff's Harbour for a funeral last P-day. The next day I got an email from someone I didn't know saying they had taken these 2 great elders to dinner and sent on a few pictures:
The next morning I got this:
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Just at the funeral service of elder Forbes's great grand mother.
Elder white and elder Forbes on stage
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At this point I put two and two together and realized that Conner's companions last name is Forbes and the email was from a Jason Forbes. I remember Conner telling me his companion was from Brisbane, Australia, so I wrote back inquiring about the family relation. Turns out Conner's companion's great grandmother lived in Coff's Harbour which is in Conner's mission and just 2 hours north of where he currently lives. This was the funeral they attended. His companion's family drove down for the funeral. I got this beautiful letter and all of these amazing pictures back from his companion's dad. It was an awesome, unexpected gift!
Hi Angela,
My apologies. I should have filled in a bit more of the detail before firing through photos of your wonderful missionary.
We've just arrived back home so here's some of the back ground story and the special time we were blessed to share with Elder White.
Elder Forbes is indeed my son. He is our eldest and 1 of 6 (half the size of your wonderful family I believe!). His great grand mother on my wife's side died at the age of 97 a few days ago. She was an incredible and faithful woman. In fact her husband was Australia's 2nd Patriarch. Her home town is in Coffs Harbour about 2 hours north from where our son's serve and 6 hours drive south from us. Elder White and Elder Forbes managed to get permission from their mission president to attend the funeral however only after President interviewed Elder Forbes to make sure it wouldn't be too much of a distraction or cause him to become homesick. They drove up the night before which is when we were able to take our Elders out for dinner. They were staying at their zone leaders apartment.
The following morning Elder White and Elder Forbes attended the funeral with us. Elder Forbes was speaking so they both sat together on the stand together while his younger brother Joseph, was the organist. I managed to sneak a few shots in the chapel.
Even though it was an church funeral service was so nice having 2 missionaries present - especially when they are 2 amazing young men like our boys
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| Your son really is a credit to you and your family. He was patient and gracious as Elder Forbes supported his siblings and mother. Our sons seemed like brothers and I felt a lot of love towards Elder White. He is a great young man. |
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I was however mindful of Elder White as Elder Forbes enjoyed having his family around. Yet Elder White didn't show any sadness or disappointment. He was full of smiles and I think enjoyed being around our family. Elder Forbes's joy seemed to be his joy. He did however tell me he misses you - a natural expression of his deep love for you all.
Our sons are strong missionaries who are doing some great work. They were like brothers and I could see the friendship and love they have already developed. They are a strength to each other and having them both at the funeral was like having living angels in attendance. Only 14 more fast Sundays and Elder White will be home before you know it :-)
A family from their Port Macquarie brach that they're close to also attended the funeral. In speaking with the mother of this family she expressed how our sons are wonderful missionaries and are loved by the branch. She said they are doing great things in their small branch, especially with less active families. She was living proof. This following pic is of the members from their branch.
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Our boys compliment each other well. Noble yet full of personality, both with a twinkle in their eye. Serious when needed but also tender hearted and quick to smile. Watching them together Elder White is defiantly the more patient and wiser of the 2. Yet they are quite similar. It felt so good seeing them together. I left with a good feeling knowing they are companions. My only concern is they may not serve long together as Elder Forbes has been in the area for going on 5 months now. Yet they are in our Heavenly Fathers hands. What ever happens is meant to be.
We managed to get some left overs for our Elders to take back to the flat with them. The following pic is of Elder Forbes's youngest brother Noah and of course Elder White with a plate of food.
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Both of our son's needed new shoes so after the funeral we took them to local mall. It was quite a special moment as the Spirit whispered to me we weren't just buying shoes for these wonderful young men but for Jesus.
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The sisters from their branch felt the same promptings and insisted on contributing to your sons shoes. It was nice to see the love these ladies have for our boys. The following is a pic of Rebecca (my wife) on the left with SIster Cole and her daughter from Port Macquarie on the right. Elder White was very appreciative. But it was the least we could do. I can't express how wonderful your son is. |
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I hope I have managed to share a portion of of the Spirit we felt being with Elder White today. Thank you for raising such wonderful young man and helping instil in him the desire to serve this Heavenly Father. Our sons are great. They are happy and engaged in the Lords work.
And yes .... it was hard saying good ... again :-) But I wouldn't trade it for anything. I know our sons are exactly where they are meant to be.
Lots of Love
The Forbes family
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